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Re:Japanese girls???????? 9 Years, 7 Months ago Karma: -583  
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I would say that SOME would marry a foreigner.. and MOST would not.

Traditionally Japanese people like white skin even amongst themselves..
Japanese people who have super white skin are considered elegant and those from areas with dark skin.. not so much...
But I think the current generation probably don't care so much..
Rather than skin color - the main hurdle is being a foreigner
 
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But percentage of such thinkers are
 
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Thanks for the reply guys. And thanks Qunli Bond, I find confidence in what you say, I will press forward with my dream and won't be discouraged anymore.
 
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Re:Japanese girls???????? 9 Years, 6 Months ago Karma: 0  
1st off... That's Aya Hirano? ... I agree on the good voice acting, but the idea of stalkers has become questionable now.

2ndly, skimming through this thread kinda ticked me off.

Japanese girls are not too different than girls of the rest of the world. Their culture may influence them to be a bit more flirtatious and cute, but they're still human... they vary from the norm in ways.

Speaking from experience, any activity seen as its sole purpose is for the attraction of girls is otherwise known as "nanpa" and makes you look cheap and dirty. Japan is very much a "If you want chicks, pretend you don't" society, not that the rest of the world isn't that way either.

Regardless, if you just treat them as people and not try to treat them as a special organism of fascination then they will enjoy their time with you. Which will then lead to good times... I've made this mistake far too many times to conclude otherwise.

Gannbatte!
 
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Re:Japanese girls???????? 9 Years, 5 Months ago Karma: 0  
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"There is a kind a tacit understanding between spouse that after 10 years of marriage(loveless anyway)and a few children, the man is free to satisfy his libido somewhere else.That is why the sex industry is so prosperous in Japan.
Male literature in combini is 90% porn and everyone reads it openly(and shamelessly)anywhere.Even serious newspapers have their pink pages.This is just beyond belief for Westerners first visiting Japan.

Japanese men who miss talking to young and cute girls (or not so young and not so cute,depending on the price and place)go to hostess bars or "snack" after work. Nothing much happens there except dirty talk. Those who want to go more carnal have the soaplands and massage parlours,but Asian men's testosterone level is reputedly lower than Caucasian or African men,so they are often satisfied with just talking, watching and groping...

There is also the infamous "enjo kosai" or teenage prostitution.I'd like to say that for lots of Japanese (or East Asian)women,this isn't even considered as prostitution.Many find it normal to have sex with a man that pays them whatever they want.Remember that marriage is not much more than a man giving almost all his salary to a woman to make children and take care of them.It surely sounds utterly shocking to lots of you,but after talking to Japanese and other Asian friends I know quite well,they don't even see it as abnormal.It's in the mores,that's all.That doesn't mean Japanese women cheat more,but lots of them certainly consider money as more important than love or sex(which I find very saddening)for both parties involved.

Behind this, I've realised that cuteness(the kawaii factor) is very powerful in Japanese women's mentality.They like babies,cute anime characters and cute clothes more than anything else,it seems.Men have an obsessive care about their job and status.My impression is that this stereotype works as well for Korea and China,if not also South-East Asia.


philippines belongs in south east asia,,but im proud to say that we have a semi-western culture very diff. to japan, Christian Country ... and divorce is very low in our country..

anyway,, i want to have a japanese GF, and maybe wife..
 
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