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Re:Trust and Jealousy 10 Years, 4 Months ago Karma: 0  
if u dont trust some one there has to be a reason for it and if some one cheats on u or is thinking abt it count to 100 and think before saying anything and try to wait fer proof cause if ur rong trust me it get super awkward. and if some is going to cheat on u y cant they just break up with u first its less hurtful than finding some guy(or girl) u dated fer 6 months had some one else. if ur one of those cheaters first of all u suck and secound of all break up with ur first some one b4 hitting up some one else u at least owe that to the poor victims or if u cant do that just dont let us find out because things get pretty damn messy that way. OR u could just not cheat in the first place that works out pretty well to
 
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Re:Trust and Jealousy 10 Years, 2 Months ago Karma: 0  
Hmm... This one is hard
We hare in Serbia have trust in our women, but we are not the same some can't trust so they follow wife few day in a role lol i now its funy.
Some let her do what she like and he don't care.
And some 90% will get realy MAD with bad end.
As people we Serb are forgiving but we never forget.
 
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Re:Trust and Jealousy 9 Years, 10 Months ago Karma: 0  
one day i sat down with my japanese girlfriend next to her laptop. i asked if she could show me some pictures from the files in her laptop. Some pictures turned out being just a single photo of a man and her with several other photos with different men as a couple.she tried to explain to me that they were just friends. this was hard to believe but i did anyway. we are still together and i agreed to never look in her computer again.these pictures stirred up jealousy.
 
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Re:Trust and Jealousy 9 Years, 10 Months ago Karma: 0  
Being jealous is not a good thing in the first place.
It's a sign of insecurity.
 
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Re:Trust and Jealousy 9 Years, 7 Months ago Karma: 1  
Looks like I disagree with the majority.

I perceive jealousy as a fundamental element of a committed relationship.

A relationship in simple terms is your personal, emotional investment into another person. I believe it to be your right to ascertain whether that person behaves/acts worthy of the love and emotion you have for him/her.

To me, anyone who behaves suspiciously and must keep things secret is instantly ruled out.
 
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Re:Trust and Jealousy 9 Years ago Karma: 0  
petina wrote:
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Japanese people have some very mature ways of dealing with this subject which can be hard for some westerners to deal with.
Showing insecurity or "doubting" your partner will cause many Japanese people to lose respect for you, especially your partner!
The attitude is usually that people will cheat if they want to cheat and asking questions is not cool even if they are cheating! :blink:
The deal seems to be that we should show trust and confidence in them, no matter what.
This can be difficult for some westerners to deal with but, if we are honest with ourselves, it is a sensible and mature approach.
If our partner is thinking of cheating or tempted to, they are more likely to do so if we are being insecure, not trusting them, or otherwise behaving in an uncool way!!

Thanks you for the post.
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