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Japanese girls???????? 11 Years, 4 Months ago Karma: -583  
Still see her sometimes
But spending more time with an Aussie guy just now..

But I agree 95% of the Japanese girls are hot!
Rarely see an overweight one, their skin is perfect (and goes a lovely brown in summer), I love their fashion and they are sweet!!!

I still have no idea what they are REALLY thinking though!
 
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Re:Japanese girls???????? 10 Years, 10 Months ago Karma: -583  
I keep hearing western guys who have just arrived in Japan talking about how much Japanese girls want them
Japanese girls may do any or all of the following things but may have ZERO romantic or physical interest in you:

Lots of smiling and flashing of big eyes

Lots of giggling

Asking you for your email/phone number

Maybe taking your photo with them

Telling you how cool you are

Telling you how handsome you are

Telling you how amazing and strong your body is
(maybe even touching your hair or arms)

They may just be enjoying the novelty of talking to a gaijin, may be just enjoying free English practice or a number of other innocent reasons!!
If they really like you it is possible that you will not know one way or another for months!
Patience and appropriate sincere behavior is essential!
 
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Re:Japanese girls???????? 10 Years, 4 Months ago Karma: 0  
Hi Petina,

I`ve found that one way to shortcut all the guessing is to just say (perhaps after meeting a couple of times - which is a good sign in itself), "I really like you."

Invite the person for dinner, a movie, whatever. I don`t feel there are many mysteries to be solved in this area. If you`re not sure about the other person`s feeling for you, then ask. It`s the quickest way to find out
 
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Re:Japanese girls???????? 10 Years, 4 Months ago Karma: -583  
My friends and I discussed this recently..
because Japanese people don't usually say that to someone early on, we think that it might scare them away..
One of my friends said he thought it would come across as desperate
Maybe your delivery is better than ours
Or maybe you are cuter
 
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Re:Japanese girls???????? 10 Years, 4 Months ago Karma: 0  
Well, I`ve always thought that if you like someone and they were forward toward you, then you wouln`t mind.

If someone cute told me they liked me, it certainly wouldn`t put me off them...besides, Japanese people don`t expect you to be Japanese, and Japanese girls in particular do like it.

Basically if someone likes you and you say you like them, then all is well. Nothing bad will happen! There`s nothing wrong with saying you like someone. Life is short - share the love!
 
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Re:Japanese girls???????? 10 Years, 4 Months ago Karma: 0  
But probably not a good idea to actually say, "Look, I`m desperate. Throw me a frickin` bone here." Balance Petina, balance...
 
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